Happenstance, A Quilt of Valor Award, Oregon

Happenstance. That is how the Quilt of Valor presentation came about last evening, 8/7/2014.

I am on vacation at the Oregon coast in my motorhome. It was a beautiful day yesterday and I was sitting outside binding a quilt by hand when I lookedy up and saw that this gentleman walking by on the sidewalk. Immediately I noticed his baseball cap. Printed on it was Vietnam. I got up and walked towards him and said, "Excuse me, but did you serve in Vietnam?"

He replied, "Yes I did." 

While he was replying I held out my hand to shake his and then said, "Thank you for your service and your sacrifice. Welcome home!"  

I could see the emotion in his eyes as one usually does, especially with the Vietnam veterans. I started talking to him telling him I was as QOVF coordinator for this area and when he told me where he was from, I knew he lived in my area. I told him about the previous presentation I just made Sunday then he started telling me about his post service from Vietnam. He told me about the nightmares is he had and sometimes still has. He related several instances that shrouded his life for so long and I knew then and there that I would present a quilt to him.

I found out he was staying in an RV park across the road from mine, his name and address and phone number. Later in the day I went to his RV site and met his wife and of course, no one knew my plans to present a quilt to this man last evening. 

Gratefully, I elicited the help of their friends from California and his wife so last evening around 7 PM I went to their campsite. He looked at me curiously when he saw me drive up probably wondering why I was being so nosy, as I've been accused of that before, so I called to the women, "I brought the fabric you were interested in." At that point he lost interest and continued talking to his buddies, which gave us the chance to get the quilt out which was in its presentation case that I just sewed together that afternoon in the motorhome because I just happened to have fabric in the trunk of my car to make a pillowcase. That never happens. I also had labels that the quilt group I was with on Monday had given me to share with others. That was part of the happenings that don't usually happen.

So his quilt is called Happenstance as all the elements came together in such a unusual happening sort of way. I presented the QOV to him and amidst   tears and hugs, because you know every hug gives you three more minutes of life, and I let everyone know about that so there were many, many hugs and lots of tears and healing and appreciation. What a way to say thank you for your service and welcome home!!

"HAPPENSTANCE"

Curiosity!

What is this?

Hello February 14, 2012. Can hardly believe I have made it this far in life's journey.
I have continued with QOV and I am planning a presentation of several quilts to Oregon National Guard soldiers recently returned stateside.

I will also be adding Quilts of Hope to my blog. This is a local project that builds quilts for NICU (neonatal Intensive Care Unit)at Riverbend Hospital in Springfield, Oregon. I have been asked to coordinate part of the project. My friend, Sue Pitt, has graciously accepted to co-chair with me. We will be responsible for managing quilts through The Quilt Patch, Eugene, OR. About 500 quilts are presented to the babies.
More to come.

Doubt

When in doubt just move ahead!  I cannot suffer fools.

Fingers

How we take our fingers for granted, but never again. How does one compensate without the use of a finger, more specifically a tendon. Well, I am finding out, not complaining mind you, just experiencing.

Then, as plans start to grow and developa little more, stretching towards goals,it happens. Another pothole, if you will. All of a sudden on Memorial Day a sharp pain began, then intensified in my right hand affecting the use of my pinkie finger and ring finger and typing is not a fun passtime anymore. My wrist is involved, too, so I can't rotate it. Try typing using your left hand and only the thumb and first two fingers of the right hand. I can be messy.

I sent Moe an email the other day and with all the errors, it ended up in her junk mail. LOL

So, the deal is, of course, more surgery I am so wanting to be finished with surgeries, invasive procedures that cause near death experiences (sepsis), and replacing knee replacements.

My goal for the summer: simple. Enjoy the weather, be with family, and ride the motorcycle on occasion.

Now I will find out what the ortho hand specialist will say next week.

Oh, and I am still getting one more round of iron infusion, thanks to that doctor in Portland who carelessly introduced that bacteria into my blood stream, gram negative bacteria; sepsis that has a 30% mortality rate in seniors.

Blah, blah, blah, I have whined enough.

Bring on the sun. Moe sent me a card today that lights up my life with the brilliance of her love for her mom.

How are you?

What a favorite greeting of so many people, "Hi, how are you." (Question mark omitted purposefully.)
I remember years ago when I first went to work at Warner Lambert Pharmaceutical, now Pfizer, and was introduced to my new co-workers. That was the greeting that I had taken so casually up until then. However, I met Julia. Her response was, "Do you really want to know? If you do I will tell you; but if you don't then do not ask."
Phew, that was the one response I never expected. So, how are you?
Now I only ask that of people if I really want to know how they are. I am sure so many people would like to really say how they are but who really wants to know?
So, my point is, don't ask if you don't want to know. Be sincere. Find another opening greeting.
I often think of Julia. She seemed harsh but she became a friend and offered her unadulterated guidance to me often. Thanks, Julia.